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am 16. Juni 2000
Beautiful mastery of the english language, chock-ful ofinterpersonal communications techniques and spicy paragraphs in theright places. I lack an extra thumb to give it three thumbs up. The methods I learned are certainly worthwile and easy to digest. Bite sized. The only problem with the material is that I see it as relying on endless mind games. Not good for people like me who get lazy. To supplement this book, I'd recommend two outstanding works that can give you extremely long term results: Ph.D of Persuasion and Magic of Rapport. These three books can make anyone unstoppable. "How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You" teaches how to get you that magnetic first impression. The other two books teaches you how to keep that first impression forever. Great combos, don't you think? END
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am 21. Februar 2000
I learned a lot from this book. First of all, I was made to recognize how subtle flirting can be, especially if the man is shy! I suddenly realized that guys approach me all of the time and I didn't recognize that they might be looking for a way to talk to me. (I've given directions, the time, tried to figure out if I went to school with people...etc.)
I'm one of those women who wears sweats to do grocery shopping. (She implies in the book that it would be better if you didn't) After reading the book, I started to do my shopping just after work, while still in a dress and pumps. What a difference! Common sense to some, but for me it was a secret that helped me to attract and meet new friends (men and women). This book offers suggestions not only about what attracts, but why. Understanding the 'why' is valuable; it helps you to understand the perspective of those you want to attract.
This book also gave me a much-needed push to unlearn my old fashioned ways and start to flirt with guys myself. This book will help you to learn how to step out of your comfort zone, but you won't get the feeling that you can't be yourself. You'll get a lot of what might be common sense advice for some. But it's perfect for someone who has been out of cirulcation, or for somone who wants to improve their dating skills.
I haven't met anyone really special yet, but I have met new people and have dated several interesting men. I also now believe that I will meet someone special, and I am enjoying the personal growth in the meantime.
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am 19. Januar 1999
This is a well written book. No doubt about that. But I doubt if this is the right book for anyone looking for a fulfilling and lasting relationship. The book emphasizes on the difference between the way men and women think, and advises the reader to play mind games. Although her claims are supported by scientific facts, one has to be aware that most of the technics she suggested are only useful to create temporary intimacy. Any lasting and trusting relationship is based on mutual understanding and support of each other. It's who you really are that eventually wins the love and trust of your partner. If one has to put on performance to get love, then that love won't last, trust me. One day, you'll be sicken tired of all this. So many people around us have found love by being who they are, why can't you? Ask your parents how they learnt to love and trust each other.
If you are young and just look to mess around, then this book might help. But if you want to find lifelong love, you should look somewhere else. I'm curious how many readers have found lasting loving relationship with the help of this book.
If you set out to play games, you can only lose. If this book doesn't help you develop healthy and positive attitude towards the opposite sex, then what would you expect to get from the opposite sex in the end ?
In that regard, I strongly recommend the book "10 foolish dating mistakes that men & women commit: And how to avoid them" by Lila Gruzen and Rebecca Sperber. That's the kind of book that deals with the essence of dating relationships. It's about how to better understand each other, not how to fool each other.
Stop buying into the "Men vs. Women" syndrome. Instead, look into your own dating habits and attitudes that sometimes ruin a potential relationship. Learn to develop a self-assured and supportive personality.
In the end, we all want to love and be loved, we don't want to fool and be fooled.
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am 29. November 2011
"How To Make Anyone Fall in Love With You" fand ich hervorragend. Ein nützlicher Ratgeber für Frauen und Männer, für jung und alt. Ich fand vieles, das sich mit meiner eigenen Lebenserfahrung und meinen eigenen Beobachtungen deckt, in diesem Buch zusammengefasst. Dazu noch vieles Neues, mir Unbekanntes. Auch der Stil, mit vielen Beispielen und einem zusammenfassenden Ratschlag am Ende jedes Kapitels, hat mir gefallen. Ein Buch, das sein Geld wirklich wert ist und von dem ich nur bedauere, dass ich etwas derartig Hilfreiches nicht bereits vor dreißig Jahren lesen konnte.
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am 27. April 2000
I'm very glad I purchased this book. It has become a valuable resource to me and a tool I believe more and more people will be needing as we move faster every day through this crazy world. I am a linear thinker, relying heavily on logic and research to solve problems. That's why I am so impressed with this book. Leil Lowndes teaches us the art of seduction through very clear, tangible advice. Her credentials and knowledge of her subject inspire trust. She offers some good, old-fashioned reminders of how men and women actually relate on a very basic level. Yes, she suggests a form of game playing by leading our Quarry to believe our opinions and interests are perhaps more similar than they are. However, there are usually some common bonds between people anyway in order for a relationship to thrive, and don't we all try to put our best foot forward, especially in the initial stages of dating, by trying to "get into" certain interests or mindsets of our love interest? I for one will be using this as my bible in future encounters, and look forward to reading other works by Leil Lowdes.
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am 20. März 2000
This book is about using trickery and deceit to get someone into your life. This is not about a healthy relationship between two consenting adults but how to better serve your own self interest by controlling your intended victims reactions and emotions while guarding your own motives. Very predetory in feel. Anyone using these methods will hopefully be spotted, rejected, and resented by the more adult population. In other words, you risk having the methods backfire! I would suggest that anyone who would like to defend themselves against these tactics to read this book out of self preservation.
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am 30. März 1999
It's not that this book is BAD but it's manipulative as other reviewers have said. I read this along with another book, RECRUITING LOVE: USING THE BUSINESS SKILLS YOU HAVE TO FIND THE LOVE YOU WANT and I think those sisters have a MUCH better idea than this author...there's no POINT in chasing around someone who doesn't want YOU....why bother? It's better to know what you have to offer and what you really want so you can go and GET IT! That's my view anyway.
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am 9. Mai 1999
This is an excellent book. It gives the scientific basis behind love and relationships in a very convincing format. I would recommend this book to anyone, especially someone who wants to have a clearly explained "path" or method to social interaction with the opposite sex. I feel far more confident having read this book because all of the information is supported by studies and science and it falls in line with other information I have read regarding relationships. I suggest first reading "How to Flirt with Anyone, Anyplace, Anytime" (I think that's the exact title) first, because it sets the basics for flirting. This book then goes into detail about why those things work and also gives more information regarding those and new techniques. This seems to be the "universal" book for relationshipss and meeting people if you want a scientific, detailed method to try. I think the outlined "steps" or "tips" in this book give the reader confidence and they also help those of us who are very shy to take a chance based on some scientific facts and clearly defined methods for meeting people.
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am 21. Februar 2000
I learned a lot from this book. First of all, I was made to recognize how subtle flirting can be, especially if the man is shy! I suddenly realized that guys approach me all of the time and I didn't recognize that they might be looking for a way to talk to me. (I've given directions, the time, tried to figure out if I went to school with people...etc.) I also needed a push to unlearn my old fashioned ways and start to flirt with guys myself. I am learning how to step out of my comfort zone, but don't get the feeling that I can't be myself. This book offers a lot of what might be common sense advice, but for someone who has been out of circulation, it's like having a friend nudge you in the direction that you wanted to go, but didn't know where to start. I am amazed at how successful the simple techniques of just looking around at people and smiling can be to open the door. The other tips take you to the next steps. I haven't met anyone really special yet, but I have met new people and have dated interesting men. I also know that I will meet someone special, and I am enjoying the personal growth in the meantime.
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am 21. November 1998
As a doctoral candidate, I enjoyed (up to a point) this book from an academic perspective. Well-rooted in current, valid research, Leil takes the mystery out of falling in love. Unfortunately, as a woman, that's my greatest criticism of the book--where is the spirituality? Where is the tenderness? The magic? Are we simply ruled by our hormones, after all? My second criticism of the book stems from her ideas about gaining the love of a "Jerry" (a never-married man over 35) which consists of fulfilling his kinky sexual fantasies. Her advice here seems glib and does not take into account the complex personal and social reasons behind a fear of intimacy. Finally, if you're seeking marriage, the techniques do not seem to have "worked" for the author--she talks about various lovers, all former, but never mentions a spouse.
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