this book is awesome....told me everything i always wanted to know about men. it tells you straight up how it really is and shows you how you can get him to kiss your feet lol.....i been able to use some of the advice already and it actually works. but this book is mostly for people who just met someone and they are still dating. but it also helps you to understand men in general and how different they think lol....compared to us women! so even if you are already in a long term relationship , it helps you to get your way without the man noticing it and still being able to cater to his ego.great book!!!! one of the best books i read in a while and it is really funny!!! thumbs up!!