He does it again! What an incredible combination--insightful,practical,and useful how-to, mixed with compelling storytelling. Mr. de Becker shares with the reader his razor sharp intellect, intuition and skills of evaluation and prediction, but MOST of all he empowers us to hone these elements in ourselves. The greatest gift of Gavin is the encouragement he provides to unearth and polish the God-given or nature-given instincts that we all posess. I suggest this book for everyone, not just those of us involved with children.