- Taschenbuch: 336 Seiten
- Verlag: Bantam; Auflage: Reissue (1. September 1990)
- Sprache: Englisch
- ISBN-10: 0553284347
- ISBN-13: 978-0553284348
- Größe und/oder Gewicht: 17,8 x 10,7 x 3 cm
- Durchschnittliche Kundenbewertung: 4.4 von 5 Sternen Alle Rezensionen anzeigen (30 Kundenrezensionen)
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All parents fall short from time to time. But Susan Forward pulls no punches when it comes to those whose deficiencies cripple their children emotionally. Her brisk, unreserved guide to overcoming the stultifying agony of parental manipulation--from power trips to guilt trips and all other killers of self worth--will help deal with the pain of childhood and move beyond the frustrating relationship patterns learned at home.
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“A dynamic, powerful, hard-hitting book. It offers tremendous hope as well as understanding. It could truly be a lifesaver.”
— Abigail Van Buren, “Dear Abby”
“I consider Susan Forward to be among the foremost therapists of our age.”
— John Bradshaw, author of Healing the Shame That Binds You and Homecoming
Bantam Books by Susan Forward:
Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them:
When Loving Hurts and You Don’t Know Why
Obsessive Love:
When It Hurts Too Much to Let Go
Toxic Parents:
Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life
From the Trade Paperback edition.
— Abigail Van Buren, “Dear Abby”
“I consider Susan Forward to be among the foremost therapists of our age.”
— John Bradshaw, author of Healing the Shame That Binds You and Homecoming
Bantam Books by Susan Forward:
Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them:
When Loving Hurts and You Don’t Know Why
Obsessive Love:
When It Hurts Too Much to Let Go
Toxic Parents:
Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life
From the Trade Paperback edition.
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After reading the one-star review by the reader from NY on March 14, 2000, I had to respond. It seems to me this person is awfully defensive and, I suspect, is guilty of some of the behavior that is described as abusive in the book...
No parent is perfect. We all know that. This book is not about demonizing parents. It is about learning to recognize incidents in our lives that adversely affect our behavior and our emotional well-being. I bought this book because of problems my husband and I were having with his parents. Since he was a child, he had been put into a role of emotional partner to his mother. When he decided to start doing some things on his own, she got very upset and started pouring on the guilt. I arrived on the scene at about the same time and became a convenient scapegoat, accused of manipulating him and stealing him away from them. Unfortunately (before I found this book and other helpful ones) things got really bad, and now we have virtually no relationship with my in-laws. It's a very sad situation. However, my husband and I now recognize the games for what they are and no longer buy into the idea that it's our fault for "upsetting" them so much that they just can't be around us. (If I hadn't experienced it myself, I wouldn't have believed that adults could behave in such an irrational manner! ) Reading books like this one and speaking with counselors has provided us with useful insights that will help us interact with them in a healthy manner, if we ever get the chance again.
If you're going through this too, you are NOT alone! Get this book and read it. It helps you recognize behaviors that are harmful to you. It helps you learn to overcome problems in the past and avoid inappropriate treatment in the future. I also recommend the book "The Adult Child's Guide to What's Normal" by John C. Friel and Linda Friel for anyone who found this book helpful. It's not as detailed, but it gives a lot of information in a very easy-to-read format. If you're being manipulated by your parent(s), I recommend "Emotional Blackmail," also by Susan Forward. If you were put into an inappropriate role by your parents, I strongly suggest "Emotional Incest Syndrome" by Patricia Love and Jo Robinson. The title is disturbing but the information is excellent!
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As children, we assume that what exists in our home is "normal." Only as adults are we sometimes able to grasp the reality of what life in a dysfunctional family truly was all about. TOXIC PARENTS is a very useful guide to overcoming the often crippling effects of a childhood in an abusive family. In a society which frequently loves to blame the victim, TOXIC PARENTS can help to heal wounds inflicted on children by adults who themselves were the victims of abusive childhoods.
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This book verbalized so much of what I couldn't make sense of as a child. Forward has an unusual understanding of the workings of "toxic parents" -- indeed, the very term "toxic" describes very well (much more descriptive than the word "abusive," which is rather general and is now associated with many things) the nature of such parents. One of the unusually insightful things that Forward does in this book is that she dares to suggest that it is not necessary to forgive one's toxic parents to heal. This is a controversial stance she takes, but from personal experience, I see her statement to ring true. As a client of hers summed up, "God wants me to get better more than he wants me to forgive." Naturally, Forward's statement should not be misconstrued as to mean that you should not forgive. She merely means that forgiveness should come as a second step in the healing process, if at all. The book offers very insightful and helpful healing tools. The checklists and exercises the author has devised are right to the point and obviously evidence a lot of thought and care on the author's part. This seems to be one of the best books out there to help abused children/adults of abusive parents. Bonuses: very little, if any, psychobabble!! Also, very easy-to-read language. For adult abused children dealing with issues related to past abuse, this book will most certainly bring up many emotions.
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a must read
This book is not only good for those with toxic parents, but also for friends and partners of abused-adult children. Lesen Sie weiter...
Vor 21 Monaten von L. Arnold veröffentlicht
Ein wichtiges Thema - methodisch mangelhaft behandelt
Ich kann diesem Buch nicht viel Gutes abgewinnen, auch wenn ich damit einer verschwindenden Minderheit angehöre. Lesen Sie weiter...
Veröffentlicht am 15. Dezember 2009 von Dr. Horst Wolfgang Boger
You are not to blame for what happened to you as a child - but you can...
Im Gegensatz zu der deutschsprachigen Ausgabe dieses Buches mit dem unglücklich gewählten Titel Vergiftete Kindheit: Elterliche Macht und ihre Folgen: Vom Mißbrauch... Lesen Sie weiter...
Veröffentlicht am 27. September 2009 von Monika Sophia Wiechen
Helpful!
I've been a practicing psychotherapist for 25 years. I frequently recommend books to my clients. I have recommended this book many,many times and each time it has been a... Lesen Sie weiter...
Am 25. März 2000 veröffentlicht
Toxic Parents - Toxic Indeed!
A "solid majority" of the clients of Dr. Susan Forward (that is, PhD, not MD)are victims of their abusive parents. Lesen Sie weiter...
Am 15. März 2000 veröffentlicht
One of the best books I ever read!
I would have to list this book in the top ten best books I ever read in my life. Easily. If you do the exercises, then you'll be pulled out of that "victim" mentality... Lesen Sie weiter...
Am 3. Februar 2000 veröffentlicht
A very supportive approach for abuse survivors
I first read this book six years ago. I found it confronting and very supportive. I believe this book has the power to encourage a lot of personal growth for people who have... Lesen Sie weiter...
Am 23. November 1999 veröffentlicht
Its hard to recommend this book too highly.
I have been interested in the field of childhood trauma for ten years and found Toxic Parents to be one of the most direct and practical things I have ever read. Lesen Sie weiter...
Am 20. November 1999 veröffentlicht
This book may really help you...
Mine was not a tale of incest or alcoholism, but just about every other "toxic" thing parents could do happened in my family. Lesen Sie weiter...
Am 24. August 1999 veröffentlicht
This book was the begining of saving my life
Eight years ago I found this book and it saved my life, my marriage and my children. This book began my journey of reclaiming my life. Lesen Sie weiter...
Am 20. August 1999 veröffentlicht
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