"Chabad has a formidable infrastructure. It has an elegant and fascinating theology, an interpretaion of reality based on the Kabbalah, or Jewish mysticism, that many Jews find intellectually and spiritually compelling." ~Sue Fishkoff
On a rainy November afternoon in 1993, Sue Fishkoff received a call from the Lubavitch headquarters in Crown Heights, Brooklyn. At the time, she was not fully aware of the Hasidic movement and had never met a "Hasid." Soon, Sue Fishkoff was traveling throughout America and immersing herself in the world of Chabad Houses. As she discovered the optimism and devotion, she started to admire their openness to the world. She was in awe of how Lubavitchers tried to consciously show love in every moment of their lives and noticed that while they did adhere to Jewish rituals, they were nonjudgmental.
The author does object to various aspects of Chabad in North America. She doesn't like the women's sheitels, sitting behind a mechitza, the aversion to modern culture and their refusal to consider concessions to the Palestinians. However, the author says her book is not about the political involvement, it is a comprehensive history of Lubavitch Hasidism and an exploration of basic human kindness. She also helps to shed light on the shlichim. These are young Luvavitch couples who act as Jewish missionaries to areas that do not follow Orthodox beliefs. They set up "Chabad Houses."
Most of the book focuses on the daily life and history of Chabad. She tells stories of how couples set up on a campus and then work their way into situations where they are feeding hundreds of students, holding campus celebrations for Jewish holidays and teaching classes in Bible, Talmud, Jewish Lawa and Hasidic philosophy. There is intriguing information on the "laws of mikvah" that govern a Jewish couple's sexual life. It interested me and I went to see the site they recommended and also found there were videos of the mikvah "the mysterious immersion in water" experience.
It was interesting to read about what the Rabbi Manis said about shaking hands. This religion has very strict codes of conduct that almost make it seem impossible to avoid offending people who are not aware of these religious beliefs. Although, I've always thought shaking hands was overrated. It would be nice to do away with some formalities so you could break the ice in a more natural fashion.
There is a sense of comfort in knowing there are people who are dedicated to their communities and who believe in a God who cares about us, protects us and gives us our very breath. I thought Vivi Deren from Connecticut made some excellent points about how society has elevated career, money and social position while devaluing home and family. I've worked in Jewish homes while working my way through college and what impressed me most was the commitment to family. Oh, and the chicken soup was pretty good too. I even learned to make Challah and I am thankful I was allowed to experience the beauty of Jewish culture.
While reading this book, you might almost start to feel homesick for a beauty so rare, I'm not sure I can even describe it. It is the feeling of being loved for who you are and of being cared for by loving people who are as concerned about your soul as your physical well being. Sue Fishkoff has captured this wonderful feeling in a book! The sense of connection and support is impressive.
~The Rebecca Review