There are numerous books written for parents of babies born at the normal and expected time, on or around the due date. Parents-to-be start reading about what life with a new baby will be like long before that anticipated date. But imagine never going through the last trimester, suddenly and unexpectedly giving birth months too early, having a newborn who weighs about one third the weight of many "normal" newborns. Susan Madden weaves her own personal account of such an experience and from the beginning chapter, "First Questions", her writing speaks directly to the parents who find themselves in this frightening situation. Her book is extremely well researched and the information is clearly communicated to the reader. The writer conveys empathy and compassion for the parents who are in such a predicament; she addresses common concerns of the first few days in the hospital, coming home with the preemie, and what to expect as the child grows. It is almost as if there were a reassuring, yet very knowledgeable friend trying to coach you through a difficult time. The way the book is organized makes it an excellent reference. Each chapter is divided into short and manageable sections. You can scan the pages to quickly locate the part that is most relevant to you at any point in time. There is also an excellent index, as well as a set of appendices and a glossary of terms. If you need real support- to feel that someone else understands and can address your myriad concerns - you will be reassured and heartened by reading her informative book.
