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A lot of men want to serve and worship women. Unfortunately, a lot of women have no idea how to command the service, appreciate the worship, or acknowledge their own desires for sexual control. Being a Mistress goes against everything were ever taught about being selfish, about the roles and relative power of men and women, even about what feels good. Yet becoming a Mistressand it was a terrible struggle for meis the most rewarding thing I have ever done. The power I learned to accept and use has changed me all the way through, not just sexually. And my sex life has improved, too.
I wrote The Mistress Manual to help other women like me and other men like my husband. Women who were repressing their kinky desires as I repressed mine, or who were facing a husbands needs with no idea how to fulfill them. Men who had a powerful yearning but didnt understand how to communicate what they needed.
In 1994, when I wrote this book, there wasnt much published information on safe, sane, and consensual BDSM. There were a few books written for gays and lesbians, and you could learn technique from Jay Wisemans superb SM 101. But I saw the need for a book written for dominant women in committed heterosexual relationships.
I wrote it, I sent it to an editor, and he loved it. Unfortunately, he had just left his publishing company, so he passed me on to a top-notch agent. She loved it too. So did the dozen or so high-level editors who read it. It was brilliant, it was good advice, it was hot but it was dangerous as well. The Mistress Manual isnt just about pleasing a man sexually. Its about pleasing yourself. Its not just about enjoying sexual power, but claiming personal power. The combination was too risky. The book could not be published.
But I had worked as a production editor, and I knew how to design and produce books. I published it myself, knowing it belonged out there, and the response was overwhelming. The letters and emails I got (and still get) from happy readers have made it all worth while. I was especially touched by the story of an aged English vicar who had been craving a chance to submit through 46 years of marriage. Once his wife read the book, she finally understoodand they both got what they wanted and needed.
The Mistress Manual is a great resource for women who are just starting to explore FemDomme desires, their own and those of their husbands.
THE MISTRESS MANUAL: --explores the psychology not just of the male sub but of the scene and the Mistress --explains how to use the five basic patterns of fantasy to create great scenes --shares ideas, tricks, and techniques for establishing and maintaining your Dominance --discusses possible problems with scenes and relationships and ways to handle them, including an essential section on safety tips --teaches all the basic skills a Mistress needs to thrill and fulfill herself and her mate
Im very glad Greenery Press is rereleasing "The Mistress Manual." Im a Domme and a writer, but definitely not a businesswoman. Whether you want to spice up your marriage with occasional scenes or gear up toward a 24/7 lifestyle FemDomme relationship, "The Mistress Manual" is a great place to start.
I hope you enjoy the read.
Mistress Lorelei
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The most useful thing to me, as a beginner, is her information on how to design a scene so that you know what you want to do when, and how, and what effect you're looking for. There's a lot of information on the psychology of dominance, and on the various types of dominance that you might try - you may find that only some of them appeal to you, but there should be something there for everyone! I'm really enjoying learning to practice female domination - and this book is a great introduction!
PS--My husband loves it too. That's the amazing thing. It *really* works!
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