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Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm (Englisch) Taschenbuch – 22. Mai 2012


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Produktinformation

  • Taschenbuch: 256 Seiten
  • Verlag: Grand Central Life & Style; Auflage: Reprint (22. Mai 2012)
  • Sprache: Englisch
  • ISBN-10: 9780446567183
  • ISBN-13: 978-0446567183
  • ASIN: 0446567183
  • Größe und/oder Gewicht: 14 x 1,9 x 21 cm
  • Durchschnittliche Kundenbewertung: 4.0 von 5 Sternen  Alle Rezensionen anzeigen (1 Kundenrezension)
  • Amazon Bestseller-Rang: Nr. 15.580 in Fremdsprachige Bücher (Siehe Top 100 in Fremdsprachige Bücher)

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Pressestimmen

"Required education for every man on the planet." -Timothy Ferriss, New York Times bestselling author of The 4-Hour Body and The 4-Hour Workweek

"Ah! Combining meditative awareness with sexual peasure! What could be better--or more life-enhancing--than this?" -Christiane Northrup, MD, OB/GYN physician, and New York Times bestselling author of Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom and The Wisdom of Menopause

"Slow Sex is the real deal on pleasuring a woman. For any guy who want his fifteen minutes of sexual fame, Daedone offers practical and inspired guide to the orgasmic big leagues." -Ian Kerner, sexuality counselor and New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First

"Daedone makes her arguments persuasively, with clear instructions and a knack for the just-right analogy or phrase. This is not another tantra book....OM practice should give many people a fresh and satisfying conduit to deeper sexual intimacy. Recommended." -Library Journal

"Daedone's philosophy is a refreshing counterpoint to the porny mainstream." -Salon.com

"At a time when many women feel pressured to add sex to their Superwoman to-do list without feeling like they get much in return, Slow Sex is a much needed and welcome invitation for women and men to strip down to the bare essentials of a woman's authentic sexuality so sex can fill her up, rather than deplete her. A must-read for any woman who hasn't fully accessed her orgasmic potential and yearns to more fully embody the intimacy and surrender a loving sexual relationship can bring to a woman's wholly healthy life." -Lissa Rankin, MD, OB/GYN, author of What's Up Down There and founder of OwningPink.com -- Dieser Text bezieht sich auf eine andere Ausgabe: Gebundene Ausgabe .

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Nicole Daedone is the founder of the OneTaste retreat centers located in San Francisco and New York. She helped develop the OneTaste curriculum and train faculty based on her innovative approaches to relationships, healing and mindful sexuality. Mentored by Dr. Dean Barnlund, an early collaborator of Alan Watts, she writes, teaches and lectures on the relationship between language and spirituality, body and mind. Her undergraduate and graduate work was in gender studies and semantics.

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3 von 4 Kunden fanden die folgende Rezension hilfreich Von Fritz am 20. Mai 2012
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Habe das Buch nach einem Artikel in der Neon über die Autorin gekauft. Es ist sehr interessant und gut aufgebaut. Sie führt den Leser langsam an das Thema der weiblichen Sexualität heran und beschreibt ihre Sinnlichkeit. Slow Sex ist eine für mich neue Art mit meiner Freundin nahe zu sein. Es hat mein Interesse an ihren Bedürfnissen geweckt.
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Nicole...Thank you. 18. Juni 2011
Von Lunachick - Veröffentlicht auf Amazon.com
Format: Gebundene Ausgabe Verifizierter Kauf
I love this book. It's taught me how having my own desires, and speaking them, beyond the vanilla, standard guy-pleasing "I want you"...is okay. Is not going to...frighten my partner away, or make me feel like a freak for having my own desires out in the open.

And, it's make me understand that a man will truly focus on me - just me - for a while, and that's really okay! I always got nervous when a man went down on me...I figured he wanted me to hurry up so he could have his turn, that me must be pretending to be enjoying it, and it just stressed me out. Which makes it REALLY hard to come (so, I became a good actress).

It sounds silly written like that, but I've censored my own sexual wants and needs for so long...the concept and practice of OM is really, truly wonderful. Wanting to be touched now, in this way, is okay for me to feel, and okay for me to say.

Finally, I'm learning that there's no reason to cover up my desires and my needs with embarrassment, thinking I should hide my desires and focus on pleasing my male partner.

As with many women, my early sexual experiences were (very very) not good. I lost my virginity via rape, as a teen, during an assault by a stranger, and I guess I never really recovered. Sex was something I did because my boyfriends, then my husband, wanted/needed it. Over the years it transitioned from very scary (even with my kind, safe boyfriend) to usually very enjoyable, but I never learned to speak up and say what I wanted. I dated some great guys who wanted to please me, but I couldn't get past my own issues to tell them about my own fantasies, or even something simple, like to please "move a little to the left" as they touched me.

Nicole...Thank you.
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Women say this works. It surely works better than whatever they get from '50 Shades...' 4. Juni 2012
Von Jesse Kornbluth - Veröffentlicht auf Amazon.com
Format: Taschenbuch
"Women who think they're going to learn anything from Fifty Shades of Gray are wasting their time. They'd do better to read `Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm.'"

I read that on a message board.

So I bought Nicole Daedone's book.

On page 1: "I teach a practice called Orgasmic Meditation. It's a way that any man can bring out the orgasm in any woman, in just fifteen minutes."

Would you read on?

Very quickly I learned that orgasm, for Daedone, is not the moment of climax. It's the entire experience of sex. It's the way sexual potency is "a source of power," an "entry point" to joyful living, a "gateway" to a deeper connection with your lover.

Sounds good?

Or would you prefer to learn, from "50 Shades," how to enjoy being whipped with a riding crop?

Given that choice, any reasonable woman --- or any man involved with a woman who prefers improved reality to romance novel fantasy --- would ask: So what is the technique?

It's not sex. It's not even foreplay. After 15 minutes, you get up and leave. It's just what Daedone says it is --- meditation. But because we're talking about orgasm, you do it with your body.

Or rather, you do it with the woman's body --- because the man remains fully clothed. She removes her pants. Lies down. Spreads her legs. From there, he does everything. Looking. Stroking. Talking.

However much I may be a man of the world, I blush to tell you the specifics. So please watch Nicole Daedone's TED Talk (yes, she made a presentation at TedxSF). I'd suggest that you start at 5:30 and cut out around the 10-minute mark.

But let's take a breath here and address a different question: Who is Nicole Daedone and why should you pay attention to her?

From The New York Times (yes, she was profiled in the Times):

"Ms. Daedone's early career was hardly alternative: she studied semantics at San Francisco State University and then donned her pearls to help found an art gallery. But at 27, her world came crashing down when she learned that her father, from whom she was largely estranged, was dying of cancer in prison, after being convicted of molesting two young girls.
"Everything in my reality just collapsed," she said. "My body turned to stone and crumbled."
Her father had not behaved inappropriately toward her, Ms. Daedone said; on the contrary, he was a distant figure.
"There had been a way I felt close to him in this felt way, and then all of the sudden he would shut down," she said. "I later came to understand that he was trying to protect me from himself, from his pathology."
Her pathway back to life was initially Buddhism, which she pursued with a vengeance, intending to live in a Zen community. But at a party in 1998, she met a Buddhist who had a practice in what he called "contemplative sexuality."

What she got from taking off her pants, being stroked and talked to was nothing less than a revelation. She discovered that women are entitled to ask for what they want, that paying attention to female pleasure rewards the man as well as the woman, and that the benefits of orgasm can have a huge ripple effect: "It will be turned on women around the world, and those that dare to stroke us, that will change the world, feeding the desire for connection that we all have."

This is powerful stuff. I know because when I described Daedone's technique to some women of the world, they all found reasons to balk. He doesn't have to be your lover? He looks at you? He talks to you? And then you leave?

Hey, I also felt huge resistance. But then I considered two of the chapters in this book.

The first is "What Men Should Know About Women." Among her points:
-- "Women want to have sex just as much as men --- just not the sex that's on the menu."
-- "What she really wants is access to your attention."
-- "Women have no idea how much men love them."
-- "She doesn't want `her' way, she wants `our' way."

The second is "What Women Should Know About Men." Among her points:
-- "Men experience acknowledgment through a woman's happiness."
-- "Nice is the trump card."
-- "Say it to a man every time like it's the first time."
-- "Men get confused when women withhold information."

This stuff makes sense. I can't speak to the genius of the meditation technique, but I'm sure that Nicole Daedone has a few things exactly right. I know I don't want to be "handled." I don't want a woman to fake her pleasure. I want sex to affirm us, not just get me off.

Is this technique for you? It's your call. I can only offer advice on a related topic: confusing the messenger with the message.

In the mid-1970s, I wrote a piece about Werner Erhard that put a serious dent in his business. Too bad it didn't shut him down. Not because est was a scam --- Erhard was a very clever guy, and he very adroitly appropriated the smartest tech of other disciplines --- but because he so fundamentally disrespected his customers. He could hardly avoid it. Someone who likes to stand in front of a large audience telling them how it really is tends to have some deep needs that, for all the sharing, never get shared with his/her disciples.

And so it may be with Nicole Daedone. I have no problem with her book --- you buy it, you take it or leave it. But I'm not sure you need to pay $49 for a "badge" that gives you greater access to her web site. Do you really need OM Stroke Lube? Or the OneTaste Signature OM Kit? More seriously, I note that several people who are no longer affiliated with her now speak about her crusade as a cult. If so, curb your enthusiasm.

As for the book and the technique, I can't fault her words: "Whatever you do, make sure you're doing you where you thought you were going, but it will never lead you astray."
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This should of been a pamphlet :( 11. März 2013
Von replay - Veröffentlicht auf Amazon.com
Format: Taschenbuch Verifizierter Kauf
Tried to leave 1/2 star...but couldnt.
OK....this book spent 40 pages describing eating a tomato and discussing the authors gma's cooking. Which is all fine for a fictional novel. This book is just a padded-out...filler-full book built around one 15-minute technique of diddling with a womans' juicy bits. Thats it. All the rest was just filler and more of the same. I was extremely disappointed and wish i could return it.
This book was especially disappointed after reading "Anatomy of Arousal"...i had ordered both books together and i guess i just happened to pick one of the best and one of the worst. Please dont waste your money....the author has just taken one technique and padded a book around it to make money. Guess i should of down my homework...i guess the cover sells it.
Update: Having re-read the reviews...i believe that the reviews must have been left by biased reviewers...because i completely cannot understand how this book received such good reviews.
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A handbook for an engaged way of living 27. Mai 2011
Von M. Christensen - Veröffentlicht auf Amazon.com
Format: Gebundene Ausgabe Verifizierter Kauf
Contrary to the surface-level topic: slow sex and female orgasm, what I really got from this book was about...
- slowing down and paying attention to my life, myself, and those around me
- living from my experience of each moment, rather than from my head
- connecting deeply to others - not just in the bedroom - but anytime you want
- noticing how scared I was to want what I desired (what if I didn't get it? what if it was BAD to want that? what if I didnt' know what I wanted?) and how different the actual experience of my desires was from the IDEA of my THEORETICAL desires
- asking for what I want in a direct, non-judgmental way that makes an opening for receiving it

I highly recommend it for people of both genders. Yep, it IS the best sex manual I've ever picked up. But that's because it's so much more. The stories are sweet and funny and thought-provoking and I find that I'm seeing how the ups and downs of life are kind of like the ups and downs of orgasm. Enlightening. And let's be honest: provocative. All this stuff pushed my buttons, and will probably push yours, too, even if yours are different than mine.
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awaken your hunger + let your sex nourish you 23. Mai 2011
Von Nancy Levin - Veröffentlicht auf Amazon.com
Format: Gebundene Ausgabe
if you are like i was before i was introduced to nicole and orgasmic meditation just over a year ago, you will be wondering about the point of reading this book, since right now sex is either one more thing on your to-do list, something you try to avoid, or perhaps it never even crosses your mind. well, listen up: this is exactly the point of reading this book! i was starving to death, before hunger finally saved my life, waking me to desire. in fact, i had no idea that i would ever even want to enjoy sex, but i am living proof that we are all actually pleasure craving creatures, and yet so many of us still just settle for going through the motions of life, completely dead inside. "slow sex: the art and craft of the female orgasm" provides the sublime permission and guidance we women need in order to cultivate desire beyond limitation and engage ecstasy beyond wild imagination to harness the brilliant power and clarity that emerges when we leave fear and playing small in the dust! don't just take my word for how OM has changed my life - give it a whirl yourself - your world will only continue to become bigger, brighter, bolder! we all deserve vibrant yummy lives and awakening our sex and our turn on is the most nourishing act of vitality there is!
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