This book was incredible! It explored a sub-culture of people not yet explored, and made careful and accurate conclusions that transformed my marriage when put into practice. I talked it all over with my spouse who was very surprised at it's content. I underwent many changes that reflected to her my desire to see and meet her daily needs. She decided to read it and reccommend it to everyone. Even though a person doesn't fall into this sub-cultures category, if a person reads it with an open heart and humility, they too can be apart of strenthening, reconciling, and reconstructing their marriage. Many myths of our thinking, as men, toward sex and women were exposed, truths reinforced, and suggestions for continuing to meet your spouses needs (with the consequences of her meeting yours), constructively given. I had no idea what my spouse may be going through. I had no idea of all the things out there that negatively affect a womens sexuality, and my wife had no idea how to explain this as well. I had a very narrowed view of women's sexuality and the difficulties they face due to the distortions from movies, my sexual education via friends, & pornographic materials I looked at until my early 20's. This is a must buy for anyone who wants to understand how to show their spouse love, & respect, that is interpreted as just that. This book explores how cigarrette smoking, over the counter drugs, child birth, traumas (physically in a car crash or abuse, or mentally), etc. and the affects they have on a womens sexuality. It gives concrete ideas for the mans responce to their spouse which I used and our relationship hit a high I wasn't sure was possible. Great book for educators, leaders, Pastors, counselors, Parents, married couples, and singles who will get married. A really great book!