I've already given three copies to friends. Why? Because the content of SM101 speaks to any human relationship, not just BDSM. Expertly written, the author outlines the basics: communication, mutual respect & creative interaction between sexually cognizant adults. I found this book while I was living in a remote town attempting to resolve a failing marriage and non-existent sex life. The practical, personal nature of its author has made, in mind, SM101 the catalyst to a new means of viewing myself and my experiences. Since my original reading of SM101, I have embarked upon an affirming and positive journey into my innermost thoughts and desires. I doubt the author set out to be an "inspiration", but I'm not ashamed to admit that SM101 has served that purpose.