This book is Ms. Steinem's psychological autobiography. She certainly is a very intelligent and independent thinker but certain things, it seems, remain impossible for her to comprehend. When she writes, "marriage is like a little death" you immediately sense you are in the hands of a radical feminist. You can see your way clear to supporting her support of fat women(even though doctors tell us this not healthy) and lesbians, perhaps, but at certain point it becomes clear she is more anarchist than thoughtful intellectual. When she say: "overthrow the whole f...ing. patriarchy" you want to step back and think about what road she is actually taking you, the reader, down. The book is about self-esteem(something force fed to young black males in the 60's just before their rate of incarceration shot from near 0 to 50%) but does she really know what she means. Would she have us say to our children, "you are the product of a little death" to build their self-esteem? Or is she thinking of her perfect world in which there is no marriage? She fully reveals her extremely sad and unhappy childhood but nevertheless seems to have learned so little from it. If fact, men and women created each other through the forces of evolution for compatibility but she insists on ignoring this basic biology in favor of her own personal politics which seems little more than an extension of the disappointment she suffered at her father's hand. There are many books like: His Needs,Her Needs and The 91% Factor:Why Women Initiate 91% Of Divorce, which treat men and women as equal, and fundamentally compatible. They proceed on the safe, intellectually supportable, and civilized assumption that peace and love between the sexes is prefered to Ms. Steinem's constant battle of the sexes which seemingly can never be won.