Life with My Sister Madonna [Englisch] [Gebundene Ausgabe]

This is far from being the most well-written book that I've read, but it does make fascinating reading, both as a fly-on-the-wall view of Madonna's life and for the very raw exposé of a highly dysfunctional brother/sister relationship. It's also rich in gossip, though not as much as I expected: a lot of famous names make appearances (Gwyneth, Demi, Warren Beatty, Kate Moss, John F Kennedy Jr etc) but you don't get much sense of what they are like. The screaming fights between Madonna and Sean Penn are described but there is less insight into her relationship with Guy Ritchie (who clearly doesn't get on with Christopher), other than it evidently being a relationship that Madonna put considerable energy and effort into.

There is nothing impartial about Christopher's account and while that's to be expected, it does get a little tiresome. He's full of anger and hurt at the way she treated him and so it never feels like a balanced interpretation of events. For example, he is very scathing about her motivations to adopt a child from Malawi (essentially he says it's about trying to one up Angelina Jolie). Nevertheless, Madonna comes across pretty much as you'd expect her to: extremely charismatic but also highly self-centered, demanding and narcissistic with little sense of how normal people behave. As an example, she invites Demi and Ashton to dinner and then tells them that she and Guy are going to the cinema but they are welcome to stay behind and make themselves at home. She uses people and then discards them, but it's also evident that everyone around her is happy to go along with this behavior.

Nor does Christopher comes across particularly well. Every job he does for Madonna is a "favor", he complains about staying in regular hotel rooms rather than suites and doesn't hold back from telling unflattering stories about supposed friends, like Trudi Styler.

The book tears along and makes a fast read. It includes a number of photographs from Madonna's childhood and early career that I had never seen before.

Life with My Sister Madonna, by Christopher Ciccone, is a revealing look into the life of Madonna, the "global icon". It is also about Christopher, their relationship, family, friends and fans.

The book begins with a prologue that takes place in London in 1993 and portrays the good times between brother and sister. Christopher explains that Madonna is an insomniac: "unbridled desire for fame and fortune, you see, is incompatible with sleep."

Madonna is portrayed as someone with both a massive ego and riddled with insecurities. She was very nervous about performing for the 1991 Academy Awards, because it was in front of established actors, "whose respect she desperately wanted to win."

Those who worked for her--including Christopher--knew to praise her during and after performances and movie premiers--no matter how poorly she acted, no matter what. When Madonna hired a new person to dress her between performances, for example, Christopher told him to keep quiet, except when Madonna asked, How do I look?" The reply: "Wonderful Madonna, wonderful."

Ciccone writes that Madonna wanted to be a great movie star: "I wish her well, but secretly believe that the only part that she is truly capable of playing is that of herself, Madonna, a part that she has created and curated."

Ouch.

The first chapter begins with their childhood in Rochester, Michigan. Tragically, their mother died when Christopher was 3 years old and Madonna, 5. The father remarries and there are 8 children.

The children are expected to do daily chores and are punished for transgressions; all save Madonna. Christopher writes that she rarely had to do chores and was virtually never punished. He wrote that Joan, his step mom, even seemed a bit afraid of Madonna.

Turns out, Madonna looks like their mother and is dad's favorite.

The book progresses though their lives. In high school, Madonna secretly took ballet classes and got Christopher involved as well. He explains that it was not for his company--which he desperately wanted; rather, the instructor, who Madonna adored, needed a male dancer.

Christopher believes that the disputes between brother and sister come with the addition of Guy Richie into Madonna's life. Richie is portrayed a homophobic jerk and it is obvious that there is no love between the author and Richie.

Ciccone writes that in 2001, Madonna: "treats me as if I am nothing other than a serf paid to decorate her house." He writes about how cheap Madonna is, especially in light of how much money she makes. In 2001, Richie and Madonnas worth were said to be worth $260 million. And Madonna had the highest female annual income in Britain of $43.8 million dollars. Ciccone writes that Madonna perpetually underpaid him, disputed payments and blackmailed Christopher over money. For example, he would not get paid unless he took Kabbalah classes with her.

No matter how badly Madonna treated her brother, he always came back for more, incapable of stopping himself. Madonna's power, so the book indicates, strong from childhood, only got stronger as she aged--making her a powerful, successful magnet that nobody--not even her brother--could resist.

A compelling read.

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Those are the two main lessons from this quite entertaining account of Madonna's career, written from her brother's perspective.

She comes across as extremely egotistical, self-centered, and quite boring. However, anyone who has seen her interviewed on television will have witnessed those qualities so no surprise there. Perhaps the biggest surprise is how miserly she is. Numerous examples of her penny-pinching ways are offered, including her refusal to pay for her sister's airfare to her lavish wedding in Scotland, despite the fact that her sister does not earn a lot of money.

Christopher's inability to forge his own life outside of Madonna's bubble seems to be his main problem. It's hard to sympathize with him when he could have established his own business and worked for other clients - especially if he as talented as he claims to be.

Clearly the allure of celebrity kept him going back for more; something he has in common with his sister.

If nothing else, this book will reduce any envy you may feel towards celebrities. Madonna's incessant and insatiable need for attention is ultimately quite sad and somewhat pathological. The book reveals the limits that fame places on the lives of those who have it. A worthwhile and enjoyable summer read.