- Taschenbuch: 252 Seiten
- Verlag: Harper Collins Paperbacks; Auflage: New edition (13. Februar 2006)
- Sprache: Englisch
- ISBN-10: 0007234686
- ISBN-13: 978-0007234684
- Größe und/oder Gewicht: 19,2 x 12,8 x 2,2 cm
- Durchschnittliche Kundenbewertung: 4.0 von 5 Sternen Alle Rezensionen anzeigen (2 Kundenrezensionen)
- Amazon Bestseller-Rang: Nr. 467.710 in Englische Bücher (Siehe Top 100 in Englische Bücher)
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This is an engaging, hugely entertaining version of The Rules for men. It gives a number of simple, effective techniques to guarantee men success with the women of their dreams. Armed with The Layguide's wisdom, men will no longer fear rejection and will have the poise, power and skills to attract any woman. Stop for a moment and reflect. What is it you strive for in life? To be famous, only to be forgotten when the next big thing comes along? To have more money than your neighbour? To get promotion and a slightly bigger office? Why? To win the love and respect of a beautiful woman. To have great sex, whenever you want, with the woman of your dreams. What if you could skip through the struggle and go straight to the prize? As the soon-to-be-published The Game testifies, this is a guide that guarantees success. No matter what your goal, and no matter what your experience, The Layguide will lead you to the place of your dreams, even if you've never spoken to a woman or had a date in your whole life. Do you want to have sex with a different beautiful woman every night of the week? This book will show you how. Do you want to play the field in search of that one special woman? This book will show you how to do that, too. For more than a decade, Tony Clink has read books, talked with friends and strangers, and searched the Internet looking for the best and most interesting ideas on picking up women. He's tried and tested them all, finding out which ones were duds and which ones really worked, and traded his personal secrets with like-minded players around the world. And, of course, he's had lots and lots of amazing interaction with women, from steamy one night (or one hour) stands to his current two-year relationship with 'the most wonderful woman in the world'. Unlike other seduction guides, The Layguide is strictly no experience required. Even if you've never spoken to a woman in your life, Clink shows you step-by-step how to become the confident, successful 'lay man' you've always wanted to be. And if you're an experienced seducer, it will take you to heights of success you never thought possible.
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This is an engaging, hugely entertaining version of "The Rules" for men. It gives a number of simple, effective techniques to guarantee men success with the women of their dreams. Armed with "The Layguide's" wisdom, men will no longer fear rejection and will have the poise, power and skills to attract any woman. Stop for a moment and reflect. What is it you strive for in life - to be famous, only to be forgotten when the next big thing comes along?; To have more money than your neighbour?; To get promotion and a slightly bigger office - Why?; To win the love and respect of a beautiful woman; to have great sex, whenever you want, with the woman of your dreams; and What if you could skip through the struggle and go straight to the prize? As the soon-to-be-published "The Game" testifies, this is a guide that guarantees success. No matter what your goal, and no matter what your experience, "The Layguide" will lead you to the place of your dreams, even if you've never spoken to a woman or had a date in your whole life. Do you want to have sex with a different beautiful woman every night of the week? This book will show you how.Do you want to play the field in search of that one special woman? This book will show you how to do that, too. For more than a decade, Tony Clink has read books, talked with friends and strangers, and searched the Internet looking for the best and most interesting ideas on picking up women. He's tried and tested them all, finding out which ones were duds and which ones really worked, and traded his personal secrets with like-minded players around the world. And, of course, he's had lots and lots of amazing interaction with women, from steamy one night (or one hour) stands to his current two-year relationship with 'the most wonderful woman in the world'. Unlike other seduction guides, "The Layguide" is strictly no experience required. Even if you've never spoken to a woman in your life, Clink shows you step-by-step how to become the confident, successful 'lay man' you've always wanted to be. And if you're an experienced seducer, it will take you to heights of success you never thought possible.
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Der "Layguide" ist in der Verführerszene DAS Standardwerk, das man gelesen haben muss. Es öffnet einem die Tür zu neuen Welten, zu einer anderen Denkweise über Frauen. Es liefert einem die Basis, die man benötigt, um erfolgreich Frauen zu verführen.
Tony Clink benutzt selbstverständlich die "Pick Up-Sprache". Hat man als Leser aber schon ein wenig Vorahnung (oder gewöhnt sich beim Lesen daran), stellen diese Fachbegriffe keine Schwierigkeit mehr da. Das Buch ist in mehrere Kapitel gegliedert, von den Grundregeln jedes "Aufrisses" über die einzelnen Stationen (Attraction, Rapport, Close) bis hin zu sinnvollen Tipps und klugen Ratschlägen.
Sehr gut finde ich die eingestreuten Erfahrungsberichte, die einen Einblick in die Praxis geben (oder wie man es nicht machen sollte!). Alles in allem besteht der "Layguide" aus zusammengesetzten Beiträgen eines einschlägigen "Verführer-Forums", wodurch wir auch schon zum Nachteil des Buches kommen:
Es sind einfach sehr viele verschiedene Techniken, Methoden und Tricks beschrieben, die man (was ja der Zweck der ganzen Sache ist) nur durch Ausprobieren "im Feld" richtig kennen lernen kann.
Wenn Sie schnelle Erfolge beim weiblichen Geschlecht haben möchten, lernen Sie den Layguide auswendig. Die Tipps sind wirklich exzellent.
Hier beginnt aber schon das Problem: Wenn Sie bei Frauen so ein "Standardprogramm" runterrasseln, kann es passieren, dass Sie nicht glaubwürdig rüberkommen, weil die Individualität, die Persönlichkeit fehlt. Und auch wenn Sie erfolgreich sind: nach dem ersten Treffen schon wird Ihre Flamme merken, dass da nur ein paar hohle Phrasen gedroschen wurden, hinter denen nichts steckt.
Sie werden ein sog. "social robot", der nach Schemen, Mustern und Routinen handelt.
Also: Der Layguide ist sicherlich empfehlenswert, aber nur als ein Anhaltspunkt! Wer nicht seine eigene Persönlichkeit und Charme in den "Aufriss" einbringt, verliert im Endeffekt. Deswegen ist der Untertitel meiner Ausgabe - "How to become the ultimate Pick up Artist" - ein wenig übertrieben. Der Layguide kann und sollte meiner Meinung nach nur als Nachschlagewerk oder als Einstieg in die Szene genutzt werden.
Tony Clink benutzt selbstverständlich die "Pick Up-Sprache". Hat man als Leser aber schon ein wenig Vorahnung (oder gewöhnt sich beim Lesen daran), stellen diese Fachbegriffe keine Schwierigkeit mehr da. Das Buch ist in mehrere Kapitel gegliedert, von den Grundregeln jedes "Aufrisses" über die einzelnen Stationen (Attraction, Rapport, Close) bis hin zu sinnvollen Tipps und klugen Ratschlägen.
Sehr gut finde ich die eingestreuten Erfahrungsberichte, die einen Einblick in die Praxis geben (oder wie man es nicht machen sollte!). Alles in allem besteht der "Layguide" aus zusammengesetzten Beiträgen eines einschlägigen "Verführer-Forums", wodurch wir auch schon zum Nachteil des Buches kommen:
Es sind einfach sehr viele verschiedene Techniken, Methoden und Tricks beschrieben, die man (was ja der Zweck der ganzen Sache ist) nur durch Ausprobieren "im Feld" richtig kennen lernen kann.
Wenn Sie schnelle Erfolge beim weiblichen Geschlecht haben möchten, lernen Sie den Layguide auswendig. Die Tipps sind wirklich exzellent.
Hier beginnt aber schon das Problem: Wenn Sie bei Frauen so ein "Standardprogramm" runterrasseln, kann es passieren, dass Sie nicht glaubwürdig rüberkommen, weil die Individualität, die Persönlichkeit fehlt. Und auch wenn Sie erfolgreich sind: nach dem ersten Treffen schon wird Ihre Flamme merken, dass da nur ein paar hohle Phrasen gedroschen wurden, hinter denen nichts steckt.
Sie werden ein sog. "social robot", der nach Schemen, Mustern und Routinen handelt.
Also: Der Layguide ist sicherlich empfehlenswert, aber nur als ein Anhaltspunkt! Wer nicht seine eigene Persönlichkeit und Charme in den "Aufriss" einbringt, verliert im Endeffekt. Deswegen ist der Untertitel meiner Ausgabe - "How to become the ultimate Pick up Artist" - ein wenig übertrieben. Der Layguide kann und sollte meiner Meinung nach nur als Nachschlagewerk oder als Einstieg in die Szene genutzt werden.
1 von 1 Kunden fanden die folgende Rezension hilfreich
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Wie hier schon gesagt wurde, es handelt sich bei diesem Buch um eine Ansammlung an Informationen von verschiedenen Quellen. Beinahe alles zu diesem Theme wird hier behandelt. Was das Buch in meinen Augen von anderen unterscheidet ist, dass es sich intensiv mit "rapport" auseinander setzt. Es werden unzählige Methoden beschrieben um Intresse und Vertrauen aufzubauen, zudem befasst dass Buch sich mit NLP Technicken(neuro-linguistic-program.. oder so) die immerwieder darin auftauchen.
Ich habe dem Buch keine 5 Sterne gegeben, da ich denke dass viele Technicken darin veraltet sind oder sogar nutzlos sind. Die Prinzipien im Buch sind gut, doch die Technicken wurden in den letzten Jahren verfeinert und überarbeitet, und deswegen einfacher und effectiever. NLP spielt eine immer weniger wichtigere Rolle als zu Beginn in der Scene, doch das Buch befasst sich noch ausgiebig damit. Und deshalb denke ich dass es etwas veraltet ist.
Fazit: Im grossen und ganzen sehr zu emfehlen, auch als Einstieg ein gutes Buch! Man darf nur nie vergessen alles auch Praktisch anzuwenden, sonst nutzt es nichts. Zudem ist weniger oft mehr, und viel Material lässt einen durcheinander werden, oder kann einen sogar davon abhalten Initiative zu ergreiffen, weil man nicht mehr weis was richtig oder falsch ist. Eigentlich braucht man solche Bücher überhaupt nicht, trotzem ist es interessant zu lesen und zu wissen!
Ich habe dem Buch keine 5 Sterne gegeben, da ich denke dass viele Technicken darin veraltet sind oder sogar nutzlos sind. Die Prinzipien im Buch sind gut, doch die Technicken wurden in den letzten Jahren verfeinert und überarbeitet, und deswegen einfacher und effectiever. NLP spielt eine immer weniger wichtigere Rolle als zu Beginn in der Scene, doch das Buch befasst sich noch ausgiebig damit. Und deshalb denke ich dass es etwas veraltet ist.
Fazit: Im grossen und ganzen sehr zu emfehlen, auch als Einstieg ein gutes Buch! Man darf nur nie vergessen alles auch Praktisch anzuwenden, sonst nutzt es nichts. Zudem ist weniger oft mehr, und viel Material lässt einen durcheinander werden, oder kann einen sogar davon abhalten Initiative zu ergreiffen, weil man nicht mehr weis was richtig oder falsch ist. Eigentlich braucht man solche Bücher überhaupt nicht, trotzem ist es interessant zu lesen und zu wissen!
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384 von 401 Kunden fanden die folgende Rezension hilfreich
Good advice, but watch the perspective
26. März 2006
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This book is full of some very good advice. The ideas of eliciting values, neg hits, social proof, and (most especially) not paying for a woman's attention are very powerful and real. They do help you build a connection and gain status, they are also applicable in situations outside of dating if you know how to handle yourself. It is for this reason that the book receives four stars.
This book also has an element that makes it very controversial for some. It was written by a guy who hopes to help other guys get laid, period. The author's goal is to teach you how to get into a woman's pants. That does NOT have to be YOUR goal in order for you to benefit from it. Those who say that the book is chauvanist are right, and those who say it teaches men to pick up on women in all the wrong ways are focusing on some of the more controversial, and in my opinion crazy, theories presented (such as "GM style" ignore it).
One reviewer mentioned, and with some disgust, that the book advocates a man not buying a drink for a woman unless she "pays" for it with a kiss on the spot, among others. Again, this goes back to social proof, status, and whether or not you're paying for people's time. It also goes back to self-respect, you just met a woman and you're buying her a drink? You better owe her.
One does not have to demand sex from women, or be as chauvanistic as this author, in order to benefit from the technology involved. Trust me, I know. I was an AFC, I then went on to dating six girls at once and found it to be an emotional, psychological, and physical drain not worth the time the emptiness gave me. I did, however, use the techniques in this book to land the love of my life and have since been in a relationship for 1.5years. This book is social dynamics 110: how to handle a dating scenario from the man's perspective. Great book, shady perspective, buy it anyway and apply the techniques in the manner that is most congruent with your personality and demeanor.
This book also has an element that makes it very controversial for some. It was written by a guy who hopes to help other guys get laid, period. The author's goal is to teach you how to get into a woman's pants. That does NOT have to be YOUR goal in order for you to benefit from it. Those who say that the book is chauvanist are right, and those who say it teaches men to pick up on women in all the wrong ways are focusing on some of the more controversial, and in my opinion crazy, theories presented (such as "GM style" ignore it).
One reviewer mentioned, and with some disgust, that the book advocates a man not buying a drink for a woman unless she "pays" for it with a kiss on the spot, among others. Again, this goes back to social proof, status, and whether or not you're paying for people's time. It also goes back to self-respect, you just met a woman and you're buying her a drink? You better owe her.
One does not have to demand sex from women, or be as chauvanistic as this author, in order to benefit from the technology involved. Trust me, I know. I was an AFC, I then went on to dating six girls at once and found it to be an emotional, psychological, and physical drain not worth the time the emptiness gave me. I did, however, use the techniques in this book to land the love of my life and have since been in a relationship for 1.5years. This book is social dynamics 110: how to handle a dating scenario from the man's perspective. Great book, shady perspective, buy it anyway and apply the techniques in the manner that is most congruent with your personality and demeanor.
268 von 297 Kunden fanden die folgende Rezension hilfreich
Useful, but rather depressing
4. Juli 2006
Format:Taschenbuch
The pickup artist has come of age. No longer relying on a hairy chest and a medallion to seduce the opposite sex, a thriving community has appeared on the net, exchanging the latest psychological tips and tricks that lead to a woman's bed. But these people aren't geeks. When it comes to seducing women, they are the real deal, only granting grandmaster pick up status to acolytes after the 1,000th babe has been laid.
And here lies the depressing fact about this book and the inevitable controversy that it has aroused (Germaine Greer having claimed that such men are rapists - seems like some feminists don't want to abandon notions of 'sexual ownership', 'faithfulness', 'duties'.etc at least not when it comes to men). The book is a thoroughly exhaustive anaylsis of what it takes for a man to get a woman into bed, compiled by men who have certainly 'been there and done it' many, many times. They know what works and what doesn't. And for all the complex psychology of 'neg hits', 'NLP patterning' etc, basically the recipe for success is that you have to show the lady you are a dominant caveman. When it comes to seduction, nice guys finish last, something to be avoided when you apparently have an average of 30 seconds to demonstrate to a potential pick-up that you can swing the club harder than any rival Fred Flintstone in sight. It appears deep down, women still want the hairy chest after all.
Feminist critics of the pick-up culture, incapable of any self-criticism as they are, tend to miss this point. Instead of focusing on why such macho men want to have sex with every good looking woman they see (and why shouldn't they?), perhaps they should ask why nearly every good looking woman would rather have sex with men who heed well tested advice such as 'Always be in Control (rule no.1)' and 'Never be Mr Nice Guy (rule no.7)' than men who read Germaine Greer or buy flowers. Feminists (and women in general), constantly make misandryst generalisations about men being inherently aggressive, dominant etc, forgetting that whatever essential nature men might have, if we have it at all, it is because women have spent our evolutionary history choosing it as an attractive sexual trait. And judging from this book, there is little prospect of hope for our evolutionary future. In fact, as women become increasingly financially independent of men, they are correspondingly free to choose sexual partners on solely primitive criteria (whereas before at least a man with lots of money was likely to have reached his position as Alpha male through, to some extent, a high IQ and not simply agressiveness or having the biggest sexual organ).
'Love between the sexes is a war', declared the gloomy Swedish playwright Strindberg. If you want to sharpen your armoury in order to have sex with lots of beautiful woman, this book is essential reading. For those who wish to understand the degradation of contemporary feminism into little more than a sexual trade union for embittered middle-aged women, then also read this book and the controversy that has surrounded it.
And here lies the depressing fact about this book and the inevitable controversy that it has aroused (Germaine Greer having claimed that such men are rapists - seems like some feminists don't want to abandon notions of 'sexual ownership', 'faithfulness', 'duties'.etc at least not when it comes to men). The book is a thoroughly exhaustive anaylsis of what it takes for a man to get a woman into bed, compiled by men who have certainly 'been there and done it' many, many times. They know what works and what doesn't. And for all the complex psychology of 'neg hits', 'NLP patterning' etc, basically the recipe for success is that you have to show the lady you are a dominant caveman. When it comes to seduction, nice guys finish last, something to be avoided when you apparently have an average of 30 seconds to demonstrate to a potential pick-up that you can swing the club harder than any rival Fred Flintstone in sight. It appears deep down, women still want the hairy chest after all.
Feminist critics of the pick-up culture, incapable of any self-criticism as they are, tend to miss this point. Instead of focusing on why such macho men want to have sex with every good looking woman they see (and why shouldn't they?), perhaps they should ask why nearly every good looking woman would rather have sex with men who heed well tested advice such as 'Always be in Control (rule no.1)' and 'Never be Mr Nice Guy (rule no.7)' than men who read Germaine Greer or buy flowers. Feminists (and women in general), constantly make misandryst generalisations about men being inherently aggressive, dominant etc, forgetting that whatever essential nature men might have, if we have it at all, it is because women have spent our evolutionary history choosing it as an attractive sexual trait. And judging from this book, there is little prospect of hope for our evolutionary future. In fact, as women become increasingly financially independent of men, they are correspondingly free to choose sexual partners on solely primitive criteria (whereas before at least a man with lots of money was likely to have reached his position as Alpha male through, to some extent, a high IQ and not simply agressiveness or having the biggest sexual organ).
'Love between the sexes is a war', declared the gloomy Swedish playwright Strindberg. If you want to sharpen your armoury in order to have sex with lots of beautiful woman, this book is essential reading. For those who wish to understand the degradation of contemporary feminism into little more than a sexual trade union for embittered middle-aged women, then also read this book and the controversy that has surrounded it.
73 von 81 Kunden fanden die folgende Rezension hilfreich
Thoughts on The Layguide by Tony Clinke
5. Mai 2007
Format:Taschenbuch
Although I believe 100 percent that Mr. Clinke is himself an exceptional PUA, he lacks proportional talent in writing.
The book lacks structure and at times is very inconsistent. One minute it's "get her phone number" and then it's "never ask for the number, let her give it to you" and then it's "never give her yours" and so on. The book is full of little rules for behavior, that A. often contradict a previous rule, and B. are painfully vague and generalized. In the end, the book is just a messy pile scattered ideas that places no focus on the fundamental issues, leaving out all of subconscious things and subtleties that truly determine how women feel about you. Needless to say, it does not live up to its silly and excessive title, which promises the world but more than likely will just set the reader back even farther in the game. After reading it, he will most likely say to himself "wow, if i can't get laid after reading this book, then there's really no hope for me at all". Let's keep in mind, this book is the thoughts and experiences of one man (and not much of a literary man) whose personal successes are the culmination of his unique qualities... not that of the general population. Find your own way, reader, instead of reading this sloppy guide which will more than anything confuse, and possibly hurt your chances with the opposite sex.
The book lacks structure and at times is very inconsistent. One minute it's "get her phone number" and then it's "never ask for the number, let her give it to you" and then it's "never give her yours" and so on. The book is full of little rules for behavior, that A. often contradict a previous rule, and B. are painfully vague and generalized. In the end, the book is just a messy pile scattered ideas that places no focus on the fundamental issues, leaving out all of subconscious things and subtleties that truly determine how women feel about you. Needless to say, it does not live up to its silly and excessive title, which promises the world but more than likely will just set the reader back even farther in the game. After reading it, he will most likely say to himself "wow, if i can't get laid after reading this book, then there's really no hope for me at all". Let's keep in mind, this book is the thoughts and experiences of one man (and not much of a literary man) whose personal successes are the culmination of his unique qualities... not that of the general population. Find your own way, reader, instead of reading this sloppy guide which will more than anything confuse, and possibly hurt your chances with the opposite sex.
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