As single women, we read book after book telling us about what we need to change in order to snag a partner. We have friends and family members that are so concerned that our happiness should be found in a romantic relationship that they offer their love by telling us what we are doing wrong or what we should be doing more of in regards to dating, even when we don't solicit it. We somehow are being told that our self-esteem should be found not in who we are, but what we should or could be doing. But, frankly, it's all discouraging as well as just down right depressing. But, after reading, "It just hasn't happened yet" I finally felt like someone understood me. After reading it, I was greatly encouraged and it gave me hope that there really is someone out there for me who will take me and love me AS I AM. Anderson, wove her voice throughout the book in such a non-forceful way which made it an easy read. I found myself inspired and validated while reading it, which feels SO good! Finally!!! Some words that stick out to me to sum up this book, would be, authentic, uplifting, and fair.