- Taschenbuch: 110 Seiten
- Verlag: Leslie Braswell (18. März 2013)
- Sprache: Englisch
- ISBN-10: 0615790852
- ISBN-13: 978-0615790855
- Größe und/oder Gewicht: 15,2 x 0,6 x 22,9 cm
- Durchschnittliche Kundenbewertung: 1 Kundenrezension
- Amazon Bestseller-Rang: Nr. 49.212 in Fremdsprachige Bücher (Siehe Top 100 in Fremdsprachige Bücher)
Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy - The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power (Englisch) Taschenbuch – 18. März 2013
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Leslie Braswell is the author of the Best Selling book Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact - A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power.
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Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy was the compassionate and educational reminder that a relationship should be about honoring the other person in action and rejoicing in their unique company. (I believe, by the way that is true and applicable to both sides of the relationship) While the title does sound a bit like it is about playing games - I decided to get it based on others reviews. I am glad I did.
First off - you should know this book is strictly about handling neglectful treatment, and the 'break up' phase of a relationship only (which might be overlooked by the fact that the title itself is so long). This isn't about dating in general. For this you will want to look elsewhere. (For this I can initially recommend The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman's Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible for its wonderful insight into covering the difference between guy and bad guy behavior and indicators and more importantly, how bad guy behavior can be misperceived at first and why it is initially attractive - although I am not finished with the book yet, this was well worth the price alone. Or Why Men Love Bitches for understanding why you need to honor yourself (of course in a healthy way that is respectful to all) to be respected by him.)
The beauty of this book is that it reminds you that first and foremost, a man is attracted to you for the qualities that you had at the beginning of the relationship and all that you had going on then. Often we begin to set aside things that were important and this makes us lose ourselves (and part of the perceived value he was attracted to). This book reminds you that 1) you must, first and foremost value and honor yourself - by continuing the things that you had going on before you met him (of course you may need to cut down on the time a bit - but you don't drop anything) and that 2) a man who is attracted to you will work to be in your space and have your attention - at the get go and continually. This doesn't relieve us of showing we appreciate his efforts as well - but it is not our job to be the one putting in overtime to attract him. He liked us because he had to work for us. This is in essence why the book argues that you need to stop contact should you be in a break up or in the no-mans land of unreturned calls or affection. He has either decided to move on to his next target (player- and you dodged a bullet) or has lost the adventure of 'you'.
All said while it can sound like this is a book about games - the simple matter is that we as women do need to talk everything out and this is not the way men work in a break up. This book helps you to handle the art of stepping back in a break up with dignity, giving yourself (and him) the timeout you need to think clearly, and while in that timeout re-evaluating if he was treating you properly even while you were dating. If he was, then you learn to reestablish more balance as you may have sacrificed in other areas and that could have overwhelmed him. If he wasn't, then you get tons of advice on why you have now made room for someone better the next round. So, despite the typos and grammatical errors, I think its not too shabby for a $5 kindle cost
Concerned about my safety.....I didn't reply. Yesterday was Valentine's Day, I got a Happy Valentine's Day text. As the book
state no response needed and no response was granted. After reading.......this book is teaching me PATIENCE! Which I have none of. I'm starting to enjoy the chase after me and not ME chasing the guy. It's FUN BEING THE BOSS IN MY LIFE. I never realized I HAVE that much control over a MAN.
THANK YOU.....THANK YOU......THANK YOU.