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Mit viel Wärme aber auch wissenschaftlichem Scharfsinn beschreibt sie die "Highly Sensitive Persons", jene Menschen mit feinen Sinnen für Unterschiede und Eindrücke. Aber auch jene Menschen, denen vor allem heftige oder neue Reize schnell eine Über-Erregung bescheren.
Dieses Buch hilft Betroffenen sich selber zu verstehen, ihre Begabung als solche zu erkennen, aber auch zu verstehen, warum sie sich manchmal (oft) so belastend auswirkt. Warum die Umwelt oft so mit Unverständnis reagiert und sich der Betroffene (schon als Kind) als fehlerhaft, "zu empfindlich" oder gar krank/gestört empfunden hat. Schließlich hilft das Buch dann auch, mit dieser Fähigkeit schonend umzugehen und sich im Zweifelsfalle zu schützen.
Angehörigen, Therapeuten, Lehrern sei dieses Buch ebenfalls wärmstens ans Herz gelegt.
Ein Buch, von dem ich sehr froh bin, dass ich es gelesen habe.
Well then this book can help you. I found it very helpful in understanding that I was born a sensitive person, and no matter how much I try to change myself - I can't - I have to accept who I am and not be so hard on myself. This book is not really a self help book in the sense that it will help you to change things you do not like about yourself, it is about accepting the way you are and learning how to incorporate that new found knowledge into your life. This message of acceptance is the major message I got from the book.
Elaine Aaron also gives tips on reframing past events in the new light of looking at your trait as a blessing and not a curse. In the hopes that you will see how this trait has affected you and your reactions to certain situations your entire life, and help you to understand and accept those reactions and find strategies that will help you to cope with and get through those situations when they happen in the future.
Ms. Aaron also identifies characteristics of our society that feed into the misconception that high sensitivity is bad and why this notion came to be. (Don't get me wrong, everything has its good and bad points.) Just becoming aware of the reasons that lead our culture to look at sensitivity as bad is a good step in accepting yourself, that there is nothing wrong with you. Unfortunately there are alot of misconceptions in this world caused by ignorance which inturn feeds into hate.
All in all I really appreciated the book, although I wish it had touched on more specific feelings and how to cope with them, because it would help me not to feel as isolated, alone, and different in a strange and bad sort of way (a oddity of nature in today's unsensitive world), knowing that other people have these feelings sometimes too.
One of the major feelings that she did touch on however was the feeling as though something is wrong w/you because you have always felt different and the reason that you have always felt different is because of your trait. Also, the damage of people telling you "you're too sensitive". People make it sound like it's a bad thing, but everyone needs sensitivity at some point in their life -- understanding, compassion, empathy (actually they all want it but they won't give it). I'll be the first to admit, I don't understand this world -- especially the people in it.
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