While presented as a way to improve flirting with others, actually focuses a lot on self development and awareness rather than being any kind of "How to.." guide. Packed with exercises to make the reader think and evaluate their current situation, outlook and attitudes, along with methods to imporove them, this is not just a book you read - you need to 'participate' to gain the most from it.
The emphasis throughout is very much on self improvement and on feeling good about yourself. The view being that if we don't feel good about ourselves how can we expect others to feel that way about us. This book covers many aspects of interpersonal communication and shows how a little well placed flirting can work wonders.
It is one of the best 'self help' / 'self improvement' titles I have ever read. Practical and imformative, it is a wonderful book and I would recommend it to anyone!