Book Review Be Love Now by Susan Schenck, author of The Live Food Factor, The Comprehensive Guide to the Ultimate Diet for Body, Mind, Spirit & Planet
In Be Love Now, Ram Dass teaches us about real love and how he found it in his guru, Maharaj-ji. He distinguishes emotional and romantic love from unconditional love. "It's more like love for no reason, love without an object...The judging mind gets absorbed into the heart-mind. The thinking mind is extinguished in love." He explains that "Emotional love is based on external gratification, having our love reflected back to us. It's not grounded in feeling love from inside."
This book contains the memoirs of Ram Dass' encounters with Maharaj-ji. The vivid details make you feel like you are right there in India, on a vicarious journey. When his guru read Ram Dass's mind, for ten years he thought this was what had impacted him. Later he realized it was his heart that opened. Maharaj-ji had loved him more than anyone in the world had ever loved him before. It was "love on another plane," "impersonal," and something he could "bathe in."
Ram Dass gives us tools to work with, such as the mantra, "I am loving awareness." We must learn to identify with our soul, not our ego. "Souls love. That's what souls do. Egos don't, but souls do." We must develop our witness state. "As you witness yourself, the process becomes more like watching a movie than being the central character in one." He points out that as we witness our ego stuff, we can offer it into the fire of love in the heart with the mantra, "I am loving awareness." Ram Dass also silently chants Ram, the name of God, while fingering his beads when he is out in the world. He discusses the value of music and satsang, hanging out with others on the spiritual path. Surrendering to the guru is also important--but Ram Dass explains that this does not mean giving power to him, but rather "letting go of the stuff that keeps you separate."
The book is loaded with numerous fascinating and funny stories about Maharaj-ji. He put Ram Dass "in charge of the Westerners," only to pull the rug out from under his ego by undermining his authority in many ways until finally Ram Dass caught on and went along with it. Those Americans who had learned some Hindi would find that the translators would often delete some of the guru's foul language, as happened when a woman was robbed. The real translation was "Those stupid sister [...], they leave their doors open for any passing thief!"
In fact, the latter chapters of the book are a biography of Maharaj-ji from all the stories Ram Dass could collect. His life was filled with a synchronistic flow that Ram Dass calls "cosmic show biz timing." We learn of his siddhis, special yogic powers, such as bringing life back to a dead bird, making a stuck train go, being seen in several places at the same time, reading minds, finding things that were lost, and more. It concludes with a section filled with details on other saints, very reminiscent of Autobiography of a Yogi.
This book is a real inspiration for anyone on a spiritual path. If you haven't found a guru yet, don't assume you are to make Maharaji-ji your guru. As Ram Dass explains, "It doesn't matter whether you know your guru. Your guru knows you. There is no way that you can determine through your intellect who your guru is. You don't choose the guru; the guru chooses you." He goes on to say that your guru could even be posing as a cop giving you a ticket, or a beggar asking you for a handout. Unbelievable as it sounds, when you read this book and see what our consciousness is evolving to, it seems highly credible!
I highly recommend this book to anyone interested in spiritual growth, regardless of who your guru is or what your spiritual path may be. It is packed with gems of inspiration.