I had no idea that I was among some 17 million people who suffer from psychogenic urinary retention, fancy name for shy bladder. Thank goodness the internet opened the topic. I am especially thankful to Carol Olmert who has covered every aspect of paruresis having suffered from it herself. The knowledge she provides is incredibly helpful. She lists many wonderful resources most especially the International Paruresis Association . She deserves a five star rating for a comprehensive book that inspires anyone who suffers from shy bladder. Help is there for the reading. It's especially informative for those who are friends, family and physicians.