I bought the first book on a business trip to Germany, the allure of a cross-cultural romance drawing me in. The story completely baffled me - how could a woman fall so madly in love with a person she could not communicate with, and knew nothing about? It must have been lust, I thought, but when I read of their disastrous sex life, I was totally confused. What was binding these people so forcefully together? Unfortunately, Ms Hoffman never elaborates, and I ended up screaming at her as she threw herself into this alien and ultimately harmful situation (which I found out the friends I'd lent this book to did as well.) The ending to the first book appalled me - she abducts her daughter when she realises what a mess she has gotten herself into, merrily not giving a damn about how the child's father may feel about this.
I got the second book to see how the story continues, if Ms Hoffman realises just how foolish, impulsive and selfish she is, but noooo. She comes running back home to Mummy, in a country (thanks to antiquated citizenship laws) she can't even live in, all her savings having been spent on her African folly. We're supposed to delight over her "triumph" of getting her visa status, own apartment and job over thousands of other candidates, with her purely one-sided divorce going through. She's a hot commodity still, getting new boyfriends even if her daughter complains about having to "share Mama". When Mama decides to move to the Italian part of Switzerland, no one gets a vote! Boyfriend and daughter have to adjust, as another language will be good for Napirai.
The whole part about going back to Africa to climb the mountain is just another example of Ms Hoffman's insistence of doing something her way. Why does she have to go to Africa when there are plenty of Alps in Switzerland, where she could share this experience with her daughter and partner? (And why does she assume the "terrible" people on the tour will know or care who she is?)
I seriously worry about the damage this woman has done to her daughter, and hope she uses some of the money she earned on the trilogy of books for intensive therapy. She was never in love with Lketinga as a person - she was in love with the whole idea of the adventure, a delusion she still apparently suffers from.