Cancer diagnosis? Bankruptcy? Job loss? Suicide of a loved one? Serious depression? Home foreclosed? Child custody battle? -- or other unexpected misfortune? This is the book for you.
M.J. Ryan's "AdaptAbility" is the first book that I would now give any loved one or friend who was abruptly blindsided with some disaster.
In lucid, direct language, and short, bite-sized, but very informative chapters, Ryan dispenses first aid for the soul -- valuable nuggets of information that can be immediately applied to fixing the outer disaster and inner trauma that can drag a person in distress down into a depressed lethargy.
As indicated by the book's title, Ryan's advice focuses on increasing the "adaptability" or "resilience" of people during tough times, giving them many small, effective strategies for changing their thinking rapidly, so they can focus on salvaging what can be saved from the wreckage, and turn their energies quickly towards building a new life.
From "Avoid Shame by Remembering That Difficulties Can Happen to Anyone" to "Create a Story of Possibility," the ideas in Ryan's book speak directly to the deepest personal wounds.
The only reason that I gave the book four stars instead of five, was that I would have liked more direct information on positive psychology in the book -- Ryan uses some of that movement's techniques, but I would have liked to see more of those techniques in the book, and citations to positive psychology books in the resources section. Puzzlingly, there are no citations to well-known positive psychology texts in the resources section, and only a few are cited in the book itself.
But this is a very minor criticism, compared to the 95% excellence of the book.